♥ Thinking Of You. ♥
Saturday, May 29, 2010 ( 11:57:00 PM )
Yesterday I met up with mr a.. and I've been thinking about him all day all night now. Not in a positive way actually.. Im starting to feel as if.. is this what i really want in life? To keep going out with a guy for 1 plus 1/2 years now.. and suddenly now I feel that.. there is just sumthing missing between the both of us. Imagine this, sitting at Tong Seng, while having our dinner.. we are seated between 2 couples. We are the middle ones.. while the one on my left is a malay couple. The one on my right is a chinese couple. I'm not sure if they are really attached or just dating couples, but as a stranger.. i can really tell those guys are more gentleman than the guy that I am currently dating. (Shud I say they treasure the girls more?) In other words, the girls are being taken care of.. and the guys are like trying to make the girls being comfortable with them around.. etc.. But this mr.a.. i think he's just happily eating his dinner lah. And all the more he's making me feel as if we're more of frens actually.. not a date, but just a fren.
Eventually, I began to realize now that it pains me to continue to feel this way. Why do guys around me always have to prove that they are better in taking care of gerls compare to mr. a? If this continues.. i'm not sure if mr a can take care of me in the long run. I'm not sure if we can really work out.What I want is not this way.. I am going out with mr a now... but at other times I feel that I've been asking him out more than he does. I've been saying Imy's & Ily's more than he does.. Frankly speaking.. I felt like I have been doing other things more than he has done. Never in my life, I have worked so hard for a guy..never ever I have put so much effort for a guy. But has he ever show any appreciation? Rarely. I mean.. if this is what is really happening.. Then I have the right to say that I'm doing more things than he done.. and I care a lot more about him than he does. So when do I get feel that do actually care bout me? He dun even treat me right.. He don't even know how to treat me right. I duno what more to say.. and I dunno if I'm strong enuff to carry on this way. All I know is, I'm just pretty sad if we continue as the way it is now.
I want a normal life badly. I want a guy who loves me.. who can take care of me.. who knows what he is doing.. who care for me much more than I do. I don't wish for a remisniscence of late bf in the past to strike back.. Because seriously, no one treat me better than the way late bf does.. So what cn I do with mr a now? I dunno what to do or say to him. Yesterday.. we met at bugis at almost 7pm. By right i was to meet him at 5pm at his werk place - Orchard. But since I was late, he chose to go home ferst.. and meet me elsewhere. He went home just because I was late. And he went home because he has to put his lappy.. and he went home just as I wanted to leave the house to meet him. Like what the hell. Then, if he's at home and i'm at home.. where are we suppose to meet now? Haish.
Maybe it rings a bell that mr a wanted to meet me at Bugis cos he's meeting his fren later at 10pm. Wow, what a good choice ah. You chose a place that is convenient for you to meet your frens. And he dress well yesterday. Ooops, i forgot. He only dresses well while meeting his frens. I'm sorry to say this.. but this is what I really think about you. I'm not sure if we can go on anymore. After yesterday.. u kept quiet.. and me too. Today I wished you good morning but there's no reply. Then I looked for you at 4 plus.. but ur the one who said I'm the one being quiet now. Huh... again, like what the hell? Then, okay.. u told me tonight you will be at ur frens place. And till now, u're quiet just like that. so what am I suppose to feel? That I dunno you exist? That whatever I msg, you dun reply?
I just wanted to say this.. I really do want to give up on you. Ooh dear god, give me the strength to go through all this please. There's no one who could understand my feelings more than you do. And please, don't test my patience more that what I could take. Dear god, only to you I pray, only to you I praise.Labels: silence is your game
♥ A Walk To Remember. ♥
Sunday, May 23, 2010 ( 10:33:00 PM )
When i woke up early in the morning, today's date tells me its gonna be sumhow a special day.
Either a date that signifies a celebration.. or a date that commemorates sumthing that is gonna happen. Whoever birthday is today, I just find that he or she is lucky enuff to have this date as a BIRTHDAY! It’s a special day!!! Ook. I’ve gone side track a bit here.. Haha. So... all in all, my day eventually went well! (: Apart from some bad things happening in the middle sumwhere, it actually ended beyond my expectation. I could never felt much more happier than this.
23.05.10, it will be my 3rd time meeting mr a this week.
Gosh! Usually we see each other at least once a week rite. But now its like thrice a week? Haha. Chey, only for this week. Let me tell you what happen ok. Watching ipman 2, today’s the day! But, the date and time not set yet by mr a. Hence, early in the morning I went out with mum first to geylang without even knowing what time I can meet him. Then, by 12 noon he woke up alrdy.. and there I was, still at geylang accompanying mum. He decided to watch the movie at Kallang leisure park.. and since I could only predict that I’ll be done ard 2pm... I'm meeting him at 4.15pm at Stadium mrt. lets just watch the 4.40pm show yeah. As soon as I reached home at 2pm, mr a and i talked on the phone for a while,.. confirmed with him again on our meet up. and then I bathed again and get myself ready. OMG.. I must tell you this. Weather today is super hot ok. I can feel my skin burnt. Haish. as I was getting ready, mr a still can ask me this kind of question..
A: After movie we gonna sit ard there issit?
S: i think so, after movie we eat dinner k. I think at most we sit at the kallang place there.if u want ride (bike), u can ride la. i think its easier for u also.but later if we go kallang place,we walk there together k. cos i dunno how to get there.
A: hmm ok. i mean if u wan can bring extra helmet
S: up to u actually. i'm fine with anything
I ended our conversation by telling him i'm getting ready. and i dun want to be late meeting him later. hehehe. Actually, i was trying to avoid this topic.
I thought I could leave the house at 3.45pm. But by the time I leave my house its 4.00pm. And time checked, I missed my bus and 4.05pm i m still at my bus stop. At this very moment, mr a smsed to ask if I reached! Ommmg, what to tell him lah.. that I just leave the house? Crazy or what.. so I said I’m on the way.. and reminded him that his watch might show the time 4.15pm, but actually its 4.05pm. He always liek to set his time 10 mins earlier. Then by the time I alighted at Serangoon MRT its 4.22pm!!!! Haish.
4.30pm mr a starts to calling, asking where am I. O-oooh. I thought I wanted to lie. But later he will hear the mrt announcement background stating which station I’m at.. so I told him truthfully that I just board the train and.. will reach there 10-15mins. From here, he starts to interrogating me lah. Asking which station specifically am I at.. how many more stations to go.. how long is the journey. At last he gave up and wait for me at the Cinema place itself. I know he’ll be pissed.
After 30 mins he waited for me, and I still haven't reached.
At times like this, I ran my way out to Kallang Leisure park.. brisk walk as fast as I could. Oooh, Haha, I didn’t run fast lah.. just brisk walk. At about 4.50pm, and I receive an sms about him reminding me "Its 5pm alrd, where are you?" Omg. Luckily when I read his msg, I saw him. Phewww. We then get the tickets, its the first 3 rows. I tried to talk to him, but he didn’t respond. Confirm, he's damn pissed that I'm so super duper late. Trying to calm him down, in the cinema then, I stroked his hands with my fingers.. hold his hands.. hopefully waiting for him to cool down. And yes.. finally when he stroke my hand back and talked to me.. he’s not angry anymore. Another *Phew. We had dinner at Burger king. I had my turkey bacon and he had his mushroom swiss. Another thing that I've not yet mention is that.. Mr a brought 2 helmets today. Without me telling him what to do (for example, whether he should bring a helmet for me or not), I prefer him to think what's the best for us. And throughout our outing, he carried 2 helmets when he was with me. And even brought it to the toilet. Haha. Imagine where he put sey his helmet in the toilet sey? Hehe.
After dinner, we went to the waterfront sumwhere there. Mr a got bitten by mosquitos! Grabbed sum canned drinks and chill. 9.15pm we make a move.. Haha. The weird part is, he carried 2 helmets all the way and when we are reaching his bike.. he asks me, u want me to send you home? And if my answer is "NO", would you have killed yourself to carry 2 helmets everywhere just for nothing? His bike today was gilera.. its his frens one though. its pretty comfy to sit. But its just that, i'm not used to riding a bike for a long time.
I even forgot how to wear a helmet. -.-
Mr a told me he was confused about my house address..
He thinks I live in the middle of so many mrts and he thought I stayed at Serangoon north Ave 6! Haha. Where got such thing as avenue 6 sey. Now, this proves that he is really confused and bother to check where I lived. Lucky there's google map on iphone.. we manage to find my way home! However, throughout the ride, I was looking for exit 15B.. but never see it at all. at last we just gamble.. and reached our destination. Mr a seems keen enuff to know where's my block, where's house. He sent me right in front of the lift. Awwwwwww. Thank you mr a, you're being patient with me today. And I'm sorry that I forgot to tell you how you're gonna go back home from my place. Luckily, u manage to find your own way.. and I dunno how you did that. Part time taxi driver eh, bie? Haha.Labels: a smile on my face
♥ It' A Super Movie Mania At Home. ♥
Saturday, May 22, 2010 ( 11:28:00 AM )
I'm bored.. Watched most movies that I could! In total.. I watched 4 movies this week.
Today it's suppose to meet up with mr a.. But we meet up yesterday alrd. Then I'm not sure if we are suppose to meet today. I saw him online, it's funny though on how we are reacting.. Also, today, marks the first day for him, asking my house address! I dunno what he wants it for. So I didnt give him. If he really wants it, he has to take a look at my ic himself. Heheh.I dunno if he's being sweet today.. Everytime when he said I miss you, surely he's expecting me to meet him. Sweet meh? I think it will only gets bitter when he's quiet till now.. we're meeting up tmr but there's nothing plan. The place and time, we havent yet decide exactly. Confirm he's at Jb or sumwhere now. That boy ah.. always like to keep me waiting for him. Haiyo. Though I watch ipman 2 movie online, i want to watch it again in the cinema. It's a really nice show. But the one I watch online dun have english subtitle.Labels: movie you should catch
♥ Dinner @ Al-Azhar. ♥
Friday, May 21, 2010 ( 11:34:00 PM )
I don't feel the love.
After work.. I dunno where to go. Either go straight home or go out. Mr a got 2 days mc.. And today is his 2nd day mc of medical leave. Since its like he got no plans.. I asked him, when he want to meet me. It's suppose to be a hint actually, that I want to go out with him today. but he didnt get it.
S: when you want meet me bie? Hehe
A: when u want?
S: when u want? Any day also can.
A: tmr?
S: i dunno.. i'm so bored staying at home. still deciding wer to go. i got no plans today.. and its a ad thing if my friday burnt staying at home ): den u?
A: hmm i can meet u if u want haha
S: okay.. and so we still meet tmr?haha. let's go n eat dinner.wheee.
A: wer?
I was alrd at the mrt and waiting for us to decide on where to go.. its a random planning, and a last minute one. So I couldnt delay any further rite? I called him.. and its decided. Al-Azhar @ Bukit Timah. This means I have to alight at Clementi and take bus service 184 there. I dunno why I chose a far place for us to eat also.. Maybe cos I'm alrd sick of the north.. and might as well we do sumthing that we nv done before. And also, maybe cos its nearer to his place, since he'll be working tmr.So, Al-Azhar it is. Am I being the thoughtful one or what! I had hor fun and he had thosai. The funny thing bout or dinner is, I wanted to peel a prawn using my fork and spoon even so I had lack of experience and skills.. So I tried doing it in front of him no matter what, cos I really want to eat the prawns.. Then I took such a very reasonable long time, until he take charge of the situation to peel it for me. Awww, thanks!
Weather at night very hot ok. I regret wearing a cardigan. Haish.
He told me I look a bit pale.. and I told him prolly cos I never use any make up today. Besides, people told me I lost weight.. and now he's telling me I look pale, is sumthing wrong with me or what. Or maybe its just my menses that's gonna come real soon? Anyways, when my msn nick is - Life is complicated if you see things the hard way.. yesterday he changed his msn nick to - Life isn't complicated if I had you. I know these words at his msn nick are meant for me.. but I really want him to explain to me why he felt this way. So when I asked him what's his reason behind this msn nick, he's not good at expressing his feelings. This is really his weakest point. All he say is, you alrd know its meant for you but yet you ask me again. Hmm. seems you got a problem with that mr a?
So far.. things went so good. But wait, till I tell you this. Mr a ride a bike to meet me today. No, it wasn't suppose to be a "hitch a ride" kind of thing. But isnt it just weird.. when we are travelling together.. the guy ride a bike, where as the girl has to walk. Let me give you an example.. After we had our dinner, me and him make our way to play pool at bukit timah shopping centre. I had to walk to the shopping centre.. while he told me he'll ride his bike and park at the shopping centre. At this point of time, I was thinking.. why cant he just walk with me? Anyways, I needed the nearest toilet I could find.. And I was apparently at the beauty world plaza. When he reached after parking his bike, he asked me where am I.. and he told me he will wait for me at the Bukit Timah Shopping Centre.
Okay.. so where is that place?It sounds so alien to me.. He just tell me the place, and he expect me to be there?
The clue he told me is, Bukit Timah Shopping Centre is just beside the Beauty World Plaza. If these two shopping malls, are really beside each other.. then why I havent reach bukit timah shopping centre when i've already reached beside beauty world plaza? WHERE IS IT? Haiyo.. I exitted the wrong exit.. and I have to u-turn to be at where he is. I mean, cant he just wait for me at the beauty world plaza so that we can walk there together. What if I got lost halfway.. or what if I got disturbed by some stranger.. he never think about this does he. He clearly doesn't know how to take care of me.. right? I'm dissapointed. Then we played pool but we didnt talk much. He's suddenly became the quiet guy with nothing much to talk about. Soon after, his fren (Rad) and gf (Nadia) come to join us. I think I talked to them much more then I talk to mr a through out this outing. Haiyo.. And when he needs to go toilet, he just dissapeared like that.. Until his fren ask me where did he go, I said I dunno. *Maybe I'm not important enuff to know wherever he went.* Then, 10pm I make a move alrd. He sent me to my bus stop.. cos he told me I could take a bus at a bus stop which I dunno where is it. My bus journey home is about 1 hour and 30 mins ok. And I felt this outing is like.. a very dead one. There's no smiles.. no laughter.. not much jokes.. not much talking.
Are we meeting up for the sake of just meeting up. Or are you going out because I wanted to go out on friday. It's TGIF, and I dun want to stay at home. Plus, I am still thinking about what you said just now.. "Must we meet up today?". Are you half-heartedly want to go out with me or what. Maybe its just a bad idea to go out today. It's a bad idea for me to even go all the way to Clementi. I should have just stay at home and bake muffins. And again, I dunno why I dun feel the love from mr a.At the pool game, 'me n mr a" and "rad n nad" are like two completely different couples. They are like the outgoing kind.. whereas we are like the reserved kind. After the pool game, his fren payed his share for him and his gf. Whereas we, we go on dutches everytime. I just asked him how much.. but I didnt pay him back. Cos if his fren payed him $5 bucks.. and the pool game is $11 plus.. den I should be paying him about 2 plus..rite? Isnt it weird to pay 2 plus in front of his fren? It's just 2 plus and I have to pay for it? I didnt pay him and he didnt ask me to pay also. So, okay lah. Consider it halal.Maybe I could just treat him, some other time.
Oooh, and his frens are from Marina Square before they meet us up. They cab here and there to wherever they went today. They do things together. Why does his frens all know bout taking care of their gfs but not him? I dun want to tell him what a gentleman should do.. He should learn it himself. Moreover, I really don't feel the love. I cant help to think that I'm just a friend and I had to remind myself that I'm not attach to him. *Tears & Cries* Fyi, I'm already home on my bed, where as he's still under the void deck chilling with his fren.. hmmm.Labels: I know what I want, mr.a
♥ Blogging This Blogspot. ♥
Thursday, May 20, 2010 ( 9:00:00 PM )
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♥ What Telah Happen. ♥
Tuesday, May 18, 2010 ( 9:29:00 PM )
I know i prolly overreact some times.. but I guess this is just ups and downs of life. Me and him are ok.. we're right back on track. So what happened between us? Hmmm. Just some quarrel or misunderstanding perhaps.
Last Sunday, whole day he was waiting for my reply.. but I didn't reply him. Cos his last msg was @ 2pm.. "Ok Best!" So what's there to reply to this kind of sms? seriously...! Den at 5 plus he looked for me.. asking what am I doing. He thought I was sleeping but I told him I was outside with mum. And.. he seems pissed lah sey. Truth is he wanted to meet me. He said - "Cos I'm angry wat.. Thot want mt u". Takkan I klua ngan my mum pon u nak angry.. That's so childish ok. I called him lah to pujuk (cheer him up) but all the way he talk to me.. hmmmmmmmmm.. mmmmm.. hmmm. Whatever questions I asked, thats all he replied. How can a conversation goes on with just hmmmmm's n mmmmm's? Wth. Intially, he said he missed me so much today.. and I told him I miss him too. But when I ask him when will I ever meet him again, he said dunno. So it's my problem now that we never meet ah?
Then when he's angry with me.. I'm like cannot be bothered by him ah. I dunno how to cheer him up alrd. Difficult lah to cheer up guys who is so sensitive like flower.. As we malay say it, perangai cam bunga ah. Haiyo. So I decided to let him cool off himself. But at last, he said i give up easily..
S: why u always like to say that i never try hard enough..why do i always give up easily.. why u said stuff like that.. why?
A: I mean its true right. When I just say hmmm, u straight away put down the phone n gv up nv pujuk
S: so ur ex try hard enuff and I dun? R u like comparing what she does and what I do? Even if I do even try to pujuk.. it's not that u'll be appreciative enuff to see that at least I tried.. u even said that I give up. But I'm still learning how to pujuk u sey.I tried ok.. but if u continue to say like this, it's very demoralizing.. I duno what to say. it's just the same as ur not accepting me as I am.. and expect to me to be better than what I alrd am
A: Have I ever mention abt my ex? And it's true right u gv up. what's wrong with me saying that? I am accepting u. If not.. why am I dating u?
S: There is wrong with u saying that. I mean instead of saying "u give up easily".. u can say more motivational words like dun give up.. or try harder.. or sumthing like that. NO, u didnt mention about ur ex.. so thats y i ask you, she pujuk u better than I do?
A: Ok.. I shall use motivational words next time
S: like what.. for example?
A: I dunno.. I'm trying too. Pls tell me
S: see what happens now.. my point is.. wen u say I gave up, u nv tell me wat to do.. now wen I told u should say motivational words,i nv tell u what to do.. so, the prob here lies with us. we nv guide each other.. but we are expecting it to happen. correct?
A: Actually u just have to keep on trying. Even if u nvr tell nw eactly what are the words, I just keep trying
S: ooookay.. so we keep trying.. but how to try wen there's no guidance? hmmm. I knw alrd. if I try.. n u try.. there's no need for guidance? cos by the time we both are trying.. i'll not give up with ur motivation.. by den, mission accomplished!yay!kn kn kn?
A: I just want to pinch you right now.. Geram aje. K lah dear, I slp 1st Muah.
It's not like we never meet this week you know. We did. 14.05.10 (Last Friday) You know.. we contact each other via sms, talking on the phone, msn.. and also yakyak (iphone app).. expanding our ways to talk to each other. But i feel that msn always doesnt work. I left the conversation halfway when I was talking to him. His rpelies at msn took very long. Haish.. I need a hug rite now.Labels: mad about you
♥ Life Is As Tough As You Think. ♥
Sunday, May 16, 2010 ( 9:37:00 PM )
WHY MUST I FEEL THAT WE BOTH CANT COMMUNICATE? URRRGH. SUMTIMES I JUST REALLY WISH THAT YOU'D GONE BACK TO UR EX.. IT SEEMS LIKE SHE UNDERSTANDS YOU BETTER THAN I DO. WHY MUST I TRY SO HARD TO CHEER U UP WHEN YOU SULK? WHY MUST U EVERYTIME SAY THAT I DIDNT TRY HARD ENOUGH OR YOU LIKE TO SAY THAT I GIVE UP EASILY.. I AM NOT HER OK!
so many things happen. And I dun want to update here just yet. dammit. One moment, i have happy thoughts about you. But the next thing, you ruined it urself. Haish.
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♥ From Young, To Now, The 22-Yr-Old. ♥
Saturday, May 15, 2010 ( 11:35:00 PM )
It's suppose to be a kit flying day.. Haha. That ended up eating at Buangkok Sakura.. Bowling at Tampines Safra.. And sisha at Arab St. Damn... and it had to be public transport lor. Firstly.. meet Nad and Shikin and Hougang Point. Took the bus and transit to mrt at Seng Kang. By the time we reached, the guys are late.. Some just wake up.. Some overslept. Okay, the gerls ordered the food first. Lots of camwhore today.. Hurhur.
Actually after lunch, some of us thought of going to Marina Square to bowl.. But lucky one of us had a better idea.. to go to Tampines, at a less crowded place. So yeah.. we bowled. Ouf of 14, 12 has to bowl. Haiyo.. we gerls dunno how to bowl. But at least, we tried. Haha. It's a great meet up once a in a while. And these people,.. these yckpians.. they really know how to crack jokes and make humans laugh! Hahahahaha. It's an enjoyable day.
I reached home a by 12.30am.. Mr. a waited for me to be home.. and we talked on the phone. After the lunch, I thought I could meet mr a or fafa. But this seem like a whole day event.Labels: all about having fun
♥ Sweet Treats For Love. ♥
Friday, May 14, 2010 ( 11:55:00 PM )
I took off today.. baked muffins. Muffins is so gonna be from DELIGHT'S ADDICTIONZ.. Haha. See the pic below.. cute tak? Me and fafa chiong to bake 30 cupcakes overnight. Its for fafa’s bf family. Anyways, I manage to save one cupcake for mr a.. but the design I made for him is cute. Different from the rest. It’s so happen that the muffin is freshly bake.. and I met him after work. If I were to gave him the muffins tmr or 2 days later, he wont eat it.. cos its not freshly bake. Cerewet jugak si mr a nie. Haish! Actually, our meet up is random. It’s alrd Friday and im not seeing mr a for the whole week!
And when I asked him out today, he said - see first if i tried or not. Well what was that suppose to mean.. I make it sound as if sat and sun im gonna be busy, hoping that he’ll go out with me today. Hehe. and he did! By 5pm, I was waiting for his msg.. and he only msg me at 6pm. He say he’ll meet me at about 7.30pm.. Ok. Finally, we’re meeting up. I wanted to play pool and eat at fork & spoon. The place is decided.. Toa payoh. Then as I was leaving the house.. this guy postpone the timing of our meet up. He said his bike got problem.. I am alrd leaving my house and going to amk.. he suddenly say this to me? Time check its 7.15pm ok. Haiyo.
I waited for him at amk.. at 8pm, Den he said he’s done with werk. I’m like omg.. is he late cos he finish werk late or is he late cos his bike broke down? Hmmm. You dun have to lie to me saying that ur lateness is cos of ur bike broke down.. but in the actual fact, you have have to end work late. We then talked on the phone to decide on which place to meet. In the end, we changed the place.. he wants it to be at woodlands instead. It will be easier for him to go back. Okay.. woodlands it is. I took the train from amk while he took the cab from orchard. I can sense the seriousness in him meeting me today. Wow.. Impressed.
He reached at about 8.50pm. Lucky there’s john little at causeway point. I manage to grab this kabuki brush for just $5.. originally going at $19.90. Hehe. As he arrived at causeway point.. and I saw him right in front of the Body shop.. his face explains it all. He looks damn tired.. badly shagged! At this very moment, I felt guilty that he met me today. I mean.. if he’s really very tired, he should go home and rest. He doesnt need to listen to me and meet me still. Besides, he’s working tmr. Hmmm. And the very moment he saw me, he said.. rasenyer macam dah lame I tk jumpe you. Awwwwww. My heart melt.. Impressed twice.
We took the lift and had dinner at banquet… At the lift.. there's this guy talking to everyone about Miley Cyrus.. He said - I just finish work.. Distributing flyer.. Which floor is the cinema? Im going to watch Miley Cyrus.. The new movie.. *And the guy kept on repeating the same words over and over again. Haha.. mr a and I cant help but to smile and stare at each other. After dinner, we watched movie @ Cathay – The back up plan. Haha.. For the fact that he’s working tmr, he still could have this brilliant idea of watching movie tonight. Actually we are considering other shows like robin hood and ironman.. however, too bad.. the next show is gonna be midnite.
Ooohs, I gave him the cupcake that he i decorated for him. He said its nice and cute... and he took picture of the cupcake with his phone, and he ate it till his mouth got the icing stains. How cute.. haha. I miss you already. Reached home, at 12.15 am.Labels: a smile on my face
♥ On My Mind. ♥
Thursday, May 13, 2010 ( 11:44:00 PM )
There's a few things on my mind. I dun feel at ease.. i dun feel peace.
1) Bangkok trip in june
Originally the flight is on 30 June. But due to the Thailand riot thingy.. we dunno if its safe to go there. Plus, i still have to find my passport. And I have to call jetstar for a postponement.. Till, today I havent call them yet. Its important to call them cause, if we continue with the flight on 30 June.. we gonna miss chatuchak (the greatest flea market ever). Miss Sara here is trying to be a smarty pants the other time.. that we pre-booked a cheaper flight and ended up we gonna miss chatuchak on Sat n Sun.
2) Baking
I thought we are suppose to go through this together.. but why I don't feel the teamwork. Maybe its just you, who's the initiave one.. and I'm a laid back free-rider. But still, an initiative person and a laid back person can click rite? Prolly, we just have to work this out sumhow.
3) The Flea market idea
This was suppose to start like in March.. when I have the motivation. But nowadays.. I feel like I'm so busy doing-dunno-what-i'm-doing. It's like your so busy, but u feel bored or sick of doing that thing you do, that you end up doing nuthing at the end of the day. Yes, I'm so not productive at all.
4) Money matters
Money is important. Every one needs money.. and every single cent counts. By why he has to keep on asking money from everybody.. but at the end of the day, he's not paying whatever he asks for. Until she has to pay his debts for him. Money is always no enough for him.. but its him who created this mess. when will he ever learn his lesson if we keep on paying the price for what he has done?
5) Savings
I do start saving seriously now.. I hope it lasts till my next payday. But my heart just sinks when my savings got lesser and lesser. People know how to borrow.. But when I tell them that I'm broke.. who bothers to gimme cash? They want me to understand them.. but do they understand me? I know i cant be thrifty.. and its not a good thing to do. But I'm saving this money for emergencies you know. It's good to have savings.. it will save you from the rainy days. Haish.
With so many things on my mind.. I cant get it out. My heart is like damn uneasy these few days. And it keeps giving me the suspicions that I dunno on wats to come. Its like u know something bad is gonna happen but, u dunno what it is. i feel its like a stressful week, but mr a is not being very helpful.he's very silent... and i'm tired of looking for him everytime. i do msg him.. but my msgs are often replied late. You really cant be bothered to look for me right? Whatever ok. Shit happens.Labels: life is the way it is
♥ All I can say is this. ♥
Wednesday, May 12, 2010 ( 9:47:00 PM )
Suddenly, I miss blogging. Talking about all the things that I love. Haha. Life is pretty boring. Thats y I'm feeling this way. Let's start talking about anything under the sun.
Mum cook for me lontong goreng.. Yummeh! Especially when its fried together with the chicken in the dish. Also, I had mc spicy for lunch. Haha. Makin gemuk lah aku (more fatter i'll become yeah). Anyways, pay day is today.. but i've never spend on anything yet. Just some baking stuffs only. This friday i'm going to bake muffins with fafa. Claimed my off day in lieu. And its approved. Yahoo.... But, shopping just dun interest me at all rite now. I dunnoe.. maybe cos I felt broke last mth. One moment I felt that I had so much money in my bank.. and I felt rich. However, the next moment I know.. I kept on spending and failing to realize that I need to save.Haish.
.Talking about him.
Anyways, mr a is very busy nowadays. no good morning msgs him. Last sunday I know i msged him.. but when he replied.. I just let the msg be, and I never reply anymore. Like whats there to reply? I'm losing my words to talk to him.. suddenly i just felt like there's nuthing to talk about. I just felt, empty. Then yesterday all the more I cannot be bothered by him.. by the time he reply my msg, it was like 10.30pm alrd. I just tell him that I'm going to sleep.. he wished me good night. I didnt reply and just go to bed. And I dunno why, when he never reply my msg.. I can just cry just like that. Just like when he's silent for long, I can easily cry. Is it I'm feeling lonely.. thats why I am crying.. or issit I am feeling as if I'm pathetic.. OR issit its just my feelings that I felt when late bf pass away, just lonliness kind of feeling.. or am I feeling just emotional.
I dunno how to even define what is it I'm feeling.. oohs, dun botther to cheer me up. Cos my mood will be down nowadays. My life is boredom. Even so, I'll be busy this week. Tmr going to a make-up course at Ra2 academy.. then heading to fafa's place to bake muffins. Friday going to be a "Baking Day".. Sat yckp gathering.. and Sun is a family day. That's all for this week. Plus, I applied a part-time job as flyer distributor around the neighbourhood. I hope Singapore is safe for me to distribute flyers.. at Houngang and Serangoon for now. Labels: blogging this blogspot
♥ Words That I'll Say. ♥
Monday, May 10, 2010 ( 10:55:00 PM )
i know i never told you..
that I am really in love with you.
These words are true.. and I meant it this time, I really do.
Words are hard to say,
they're neither easier express than done.. neither they are easier said than done..
but my feelings for you are true.
Like I said, I am in love with you.
Labels: poetry words i'll say to you
♥ Dating on a Saturday. ♥
Saturday, May 8, 2010 ( 11:05:00 PM )
Another date with mr a. While lynn and wirna are watching the show "the back up plan" today.. Didn't meet my girls, meet mr a instead. I met mr a as usual at Orchard mrt, and we took the train to city hall. Today, he looked at me and say.. asal u mcm lawa nyari. *Kembang. I make-up today. Haha. Cos just now before I met him, I went out with mum to geylang. Weather is scorching hot ok.. Haha. But by the time i reached home, its raining. Weather is cold. And I wore my flower jacket to meet mr a. Maybe its the jacket that is lawa. Haha. Ok, back to the story.. mr and I when we meet. I dunno how to say this.. but it feels as if like we haven't meet up for ages. Rindu oohs.
Then as we were walking to marina square for dinner, mr a saw his abang sedare family.. abg sedara with his wife and son. And his abg sedare ask, nie ur mataer? Mr a said.. bakal. Until now, i dun really know the definition of bakal. Hmm. Bakal isteri ke? I tried asking mr a bout this issue.. but he gives a hint, saying that usually people say bakal is for those who'll get married. Haha. Full stop. I dun want ask further. We had our dinner at Long john silver. Then we played arcade, the house of the dead game. Wahh. I loove the game. Actually, me and him thought of playing bowling you know. But the seats there they change already. Not that comfy anymore. Then we dropped the idea of playing pool. We checked out the movies.. and you know what. Time check, its only 7 plus.. but the movie tickets are all sold out.. and the next available time slot is like 9 plus. So thats why we arcade. We planned to watch movies next week anyway. After arcade, we chilled at starbucks.. This is where its a coincidence that i met lynn and wirna at starbucks. We sit ard for a while.. den me and mr a proceed to the ferris wheel to chill. :D
It's time well spent I guess. As long as we're walking together.. we'll sing, "You are the only exception". Labels: a smile on my face
♥ Round & Round Window Shopping. ♥
Friday, May 7, 2010 ( 11:14:00 PM )
Don't u think mr.a is very branded?
He wears a paul smith shirt. Ray Ban sunglass. Burberry wallet. Emporio armani watch. Now, I feel as if he's very high class. I dunno eversince when he's branded.. But when he's like this, it makes me feel as if, I can't keep up with him. He has too much expensive stuffs already. I mean, expensive stuffs do last.. but they are very costly as well. The most expensive thing that I splurge in my life is just Escada perfumes. Buying perfume for less than $100 is ok already for me.. or maybe Swatch watch.. for like below $150.
But this mr.a.. he shops for the very high end kind of brand. For example.. You cant compare a levi's wallet with Burberry's wallet. Though both are branded. But the cost is still not the same. A levi's wallet will hardly stand a chance to be compared with burberry's wallet. The level of brand is not the same. I just feel as if its hard to keep up if he keeps on wearing branded stuff. I mean, it makes me feel as if I'm not that same level as him. I'm not fit for him. That I can't also be as branded as him. I once bought him this Top man shirt.. it cost like $29.. but its on offer lah. So what is the worth of a Topman's shirt compared to a Paul Smith's shirt? Topman is not even close. It's too cheap for mr.a.. And, I dun see him wearing the shirt, okay la.. I only see him wore it once. Only once..
Last time, 5 years ago.. yes.. I was kindda branded. I do admit. Bought Levi's, Esprit, Topshop, Dorothy Perkins, Forever 21, Joop. To me, these are already branded.. and its hard to keep up with it. And till today, these branded stuffs do last in my cupboard. However, when I enter poly life.. I began to learn to shop at a place call the bugis street. Everything is $10 or even cheaper. There, it seems like to be my shopping paradise. so I start being the budget girl. Haha. But now, since mr.a is like this. I dunno whether to keep up with mr.a's pace or just be my normal self.. i.e.. continue shopping for cheap stuffs. Plus, I was even wondering.. his expensive stuffs did he really buy it or his ex gf bought for him. wow. she must have been damn rich la. Now, I wish.. for an expensive wallet. Not because I want to keep up with mr.a.. But partly, cos I think it's time for grown ups to have expensive stuffs. I have the cheap stuffs in my cupboard.. It's time for expensives stuff now.. to keep up with moderation.
Let's start with sumthing that I frequently use.. How about, a wallet ay? (: AGNES B! I want. How about a bag? DKNY.. I want! Shoes? LACOSTE or FRED PERRY!
After work I walked all around raffles city.. boarded the train and alighted at dhoby ghaut. Took a peek at Plaza Singapura agnes b voyage shop.. den walked all the way to Orchard Plaza, and went to OG. Scan through the GUESS wallets that's on sale.. it's now selling at about $35.90 only. Quite cheap uhs. Then I walked to 313. Take a peek at the shops around.. there's no agnes b or burberry shops.. Then I walked to Taka. and manage to take a peek at burberry, agnes b collections.. and there's also a sale at the taka foyer. Walked rounds in rounds..Again, I saw guess wallets n shoes on sale.. tempted to buy. But I resisted the temptations. Then went to metro paragon.. walked rounds and rounds to see wallets and bags. And nuthing caught my eye. In my mind.. I still want agnes b or burberry.. it seems like the best option so far. So, I visited the agnes b at isetan - wisma atria.. plus DKNY n GUESS stuffs. Also, I visited Havaianas shop at istean and Ion. I wanted to get the slipper, but dun have my size. Then I went to DFS galleria. OMG. The things there very very damn ex. Hermes wallet cost as much as $2000.++ I am not joking. Since aunty has this 25% to 30% discount card.. I thought I could like buy an expensive wallet for myself. But whoaaa. Buying the brands is costly. Damn damn costly.
And last but not least.. I make my way to the Isetan Shaw Centre.. And this is where I made up my mind that I wanted that Agnes B wallet badly. Met Lynn and Aunty Zee at the Isetan. This is all an unplanned meet up eventually. When I told aunty about my idea of buying new wallet.. Aunty was like reminding me,.. that she has a new wallet that she can gave it to me instead of me waste money n buying one. But then again, its different when you are using sumthing that you buy.. as comparedto sumthingt that was given to you. The sentimental values is kindda different you know. Oh wells, I dun want to argue further. Once aunty said goodbye to me n Lynn. Both of us sit at mc cafe while having Mango smoothie and some supper. We talked and shared about.. anything under the sun. Meet up with Lynn and Wirna again tmr.. but I dun think I can join.
Surprisingly today, I didn't shop for clothes or shoes or bags or wallets or pants. YAY! However, these are the things that I wanna so get... and include them in my wishlist.
Others.. for shoes n bags.
Labels: Random shopping
♥ Bored.. Getting Sick Of These. ♥
Thursday, May 6, 2010 ( 11:28:00 AM )
I’m pretty bored now. I cant think of anything. Work work work. But there’s not much workload just yet. Day by day, I was hoping that it will be a busy day.. and not a stressful day please. But I think that very day, is still yet to come. All I do here at this workplace, staring in front at my comp.. thinking what to do every minute, every second. Yes, I agree that once a while it’s a good thing when you have nothing to do at work. But it happens too much of no workload everyday, I guess you'll also can officially get sick of it.. you just wish that you were busy.
Haish.. Life is never that good enough right? And we’ll never feel satisfied with what we have right.. I don’t know what more I want now. I have a job.. but I’m not doing anything at work. I have a boy friend.. but we are not doing anything about us. Its not like I am expecting IT to happen.(Like sumthing magical to happen) Its just that.. I cant find the right words to say about us. I don’t know where we are going.. I don’t know where we are heading. Can’t we just be like what happy people do. Can’t we just feel normal.. and live life normally. I bet you’ve guessed it right.. I am not happy cos we are not normal. I dun feel normal and I dun wanna feel like we’re special, cos we know that we’re just not normal.
I’m just living life with the flow now. Do whatever you want with me. I don’t care. I'm sick of things that I just dunno what to do.
Labels: i'm on the job
♥ Things Happen For A Reason ♥
( 12:39:00 AM )
"B meet u ard 640. Lbt sikit"
When I met mr. a, he's already smilingg. Like what the malay says, senyum2 kambing (smile like sheep). Haha. Mr a accidentally msg his boss that he will meet him at 6.40pm. Hahaha! His boss asked him to stay back for work till 10 pm today. But he wants to msg me that he'll be late.. so he replied wrongly. Lucky, his boss doesnt understand what he meant. Hurhur. If he had included "sayang" in the msg how? Ooops, secrets leaked out.. your boss know already.. Haha.
I thought we would go to Kallang Leisure Park to watch movie there.. Since Cathay and Gv confim overwhelming response for the iron man2 show.. So I told him that we could take circle line at paya lebar.. But, he's like.. why must go all the way to payar lebar? He kept on saying that we can go dhoby ghaut.. And I'm like.. Dhoby got what? Hahahahahha! Ooooh, I know. There's Circle Line. And the circle line goes to kallang! Hurhur. Sorry lah, I dunno the circle line route map ahs. Hehe. We had our dinner and Magic wok - city hall. Met him @ city link, 6.15 pm.. Even though he said he'll reach at 6.40pm initially. But he dropped the idea of going home to take his bike.. Dinner at magic wok.. and its not that nice. Sakura is tastier. While eating, we were checking out the shows timing at film garde.. Then only we saw the movie at iluma, starts at 7.30pm.. whereas the one at Kallang Leisure Park starts at 7.50pm. Since we are nearby Bugis, and mr a has to go back to werk at 10 pm, we thought watching the movie Bugis was not a bad idea after all... Until when we reached there, at the film garde counter.. The available seats left would be the ferst 3 front rows. Omgg. Yikes, we dunwan to watch movie already. Tried planning to watch other shows or movie at bugis - shaw. But to no avail.. no perfect timing, no perfect movie. Next shows are like 8.30 or 9 plus. Haiyo.
Weather is pretty humid and we were left of nowhere to go now.. Movie plan, destroyed. There's a G2000 sale you know. $23 for one pants. I love one green pants.. But there's no my size. and while I was at the sale.. mr a went to survey some perfumes. One of which is Diesel and Clinique. He ask for my opinion which is nice.. surprisingly, like me.. he and I are just fans of perfume. Any perfume, you name it! I prefer the Diesel one. Cos the clinique smells like sabun. Hehehe. Then, we planned to chill at Starbucks. But the one at Bugis is undergoing renovation. We planned to chill at coffee bean, but by the time we reached there.. it has closed. Wahhh. What a life today. In the end, we're not chilling at comfy and classy places.. but at Banquet instead. Rather than ordering $5-$6 drink, we had our $1.50 drink. Haha. Thats how bad today was.. unplanned. Me and mr a couldnt do anything much also on our meet up today. He last minute has to work till 10 pm today. Even still, he continued to meet me, but will only return to his workplace to punch card at 10pm.
I took the train with him.. but at orchard station, we said goodbye before he go back to work. You know, just now.. he still can tell me that he had a backed up plan if his boss asked him tmr - "What u msg me yesterday... with regard to the -B meet u ard 640. Lbt sikit".. So mr a told me he will reply, "ooh, the msg is for my gf.. Meeting her for dinner.. cos working till 10pm".. GF? He called me his gf. Thinking bout this, after I reached home, I smsed.
Question (S): Whats ur definition of "girlfren" and "girl fren"
Answer (A): Is there a diff?
S: One got space.. another got no space..
A: I think space is a normal fren. If no space is ur girl la. why?
S: Just asking. ook. sleeping soon?
A: No why u suddenly ask???
S: I cant suddenly ask? thinking sey just now u said sumthing abt gerl fren, wen u wer imagining to explain to ramlan (mr a's boss) that u txt him wrongly.. so i dunno which i fall under
A: Hmm which one u want?
S: I just want to clarify which one u meant.. its not about which one i want. i think it should be which one u meant
Hmm.. i must know 1st right which one u want to be but u the one who said it... so I would like to know ferst which one u meant. baby, its not fair.. whenever i ask u a question u tanye i alek
A: ok both la I wan can?
S: why not one of it? like that how do i know ehn to be girfren and wen to be girl fren?
A: Be both all the time. Easy.
Sometimes, its easier for you to say than done you know. . Unless, you can tell me how this can be done. As far as I understand.. we can be either one, not both at the same time. It's pretty confusing if we'll be both dun u think?Labels: words that you said
♥ Mummy's Birthday. ♥
Tuesday, May 4, 2010 ( 11:46:00 PM )
Happy Birthday mummy!
Just now, I met nina and nadiah rite after work. We bought prima deli's birthday cake and durian pancake, pizza hut family meal - 2 regular pizza, 2 garlic bread, 6 pcs honey chicken.. lastly, kfc chicken (4pcs) too. We cabbed home from amk and ta-pau all those to eat as a family at home.. Awww. It's time to hv a family reunion from our busy schedules. And the funny part is, ayah still can ask us to buy murtabak from the arab st when we three sisters already reached amk. Then, when we're on the way home.. he still can ask.. what time you reaching home, mummy is hungry. Just because mummy bday is today, dun try to take advantage of the situation k? Dun say mummy hungry, when you're hungrier den mummy. HAHA.
At home.. while awaiting for the cutting cake ceremony.. mummy wants to pray ferst when we'd lighted the candles and wait for birthday girl to blow her candles in the dining room. The whole house was dark.. Only lighted candles can be seen. And to delay this kind of scenario further, mummy had to say that she's going to pray first instead.. eventually, she sat down with us to have the birthday ceremony first. Yay! Everyone is super hungrryy. I loove the ocean fresh pizza. My favourite, and my choice! I also loove kfc. Foood, foood, fooooood.. all the food thats in the house also I love. Haha. At last we have a bit of leftovers for dinner tonight. Too much food. Tapikan.. Alhamdullilah.. rezeki sume dtg dari allah swt. Thank you god!
After eating.. I bath and wash up. Then I thought about mr a. So I smsed him.. and he replied! Excited ehs? Haha. One whole day we never contact ok. Yesterday, his last msg was at 6.58 pm.. and I nv contact him eversince. @ msn, finally I saw him online. Just so you know, today marks our first web cam together. Haha. How cutee.. he tricked me that I can c him.. but actually that's his fan lah.. -.- His webcam is very very very dark! Do you know how many times i look in the mirror before I actually let him see me at msn. Truth is, I dun like my hair. Its very messy.. thought of rebonding or curling it soon. Oohs, now I'm just having thoughts only. I'll do it when I'm done saving. hmmmmm, when will that be? *dreaming*
He told me that I look sexy with my specs. My hair is messy ok.. Anyhow only. Abeh sara kembang? No i'm not. woo-hoo. I'm glad that tonight, we spoke on the phone before we officially had a good sleep. It's his first time saying.. bie, i call u before i sleep k. It's nice to hear his voice again. I'm seeing him tmr. :D Now there's a big big smile on my face. Labels: singing happy birthday to you
♥ I Want You, Badly. ♥
Monday, May 3, 2010 ( 9:17:00 PM )
He asked for my number,.. and we exchanged numbers.
Apart from this.. I want you to msg me.. but u didnt. I want you to meet me.. but u're busy working. I want you to chat with me.. but u're not online. I want you.. And.. everytime when I desired for you.. other guys keep coming my way. Just where are you and what you're doing? There's a lot of things I would like you to do. I was hoping that you'd do it.. for me. But u didnt. So now I have to talk to other guys, date with other guys, chat with other guys? You dunno what I'm doing do you? I dunno either. All I know is.. i'm doing this.. as long as I'm staying single. But till how long? As long as I'm single.. But till how long? As long as I'm single.. Till when?Aslong as Im single. So when will I end up being single? Till I dunno when. I kept on asking this to myself many many times. Npw, do u think its time to answer it for me? Sumtimes.. I'm not sure what I'm doing in life. Am i really serious with my boy frens.. or I'm just playing ard. Haish. And now.. I'm trying to recall late bf's friendster. But I hardly remember wat is his email address. I do miss him.
I guess I have to be stronger than I thought I already am. I need to be stronger.
Work is okay today.. But i think there's lot still for me to learn. I'm still feeling as if I'm just like a newbie. Haha. Everything is so new.. and i must be super independent. Work.. also, is again.. kindda bored as usual. For one thing, i'm grateful that there's not much werk to be done.. For another thing, sumtimes when there's nothing to do at work.. you will just sit at ur werkstation and rot. Rot till you finish werk. And the nxt day u reach work, u will start to rot again. Life is a cycle. Be it you like your job or not, life at the workplace definitely has its pros and cons. I.. I.. I.. I.. I kept asking mr a to check his schedule so that we can meet. But I guess he's just too busy. Issit so hard to tell me when ur free so that we could go out together?
Labels: life is the way it is
♥ The Weekends Has Gone By. ♥
Sunday, May 2, 2010 ( 10:57:00 PM )
2.30pm.. I left the house and make my way to cck mrt. Late bf sis pick me up.. Her husband is driving.. and together with her kids, off we went to west coast. It seems like kite flying is now the latest fashion.. Haha. And if you dun have a kite,.. no need to buy one. Don't worry. You'll find one the finder's keepers way. Wait till its nite time, and you can see kites lying on the floor. It may belong to sumone during the day.. but its left unattended at nite - due to broken strings the kites fly high in the sky, and when there's no more wind, it fall down to the ground by nitefall.
Late bf mum is so excited as soon as she she me. She grabbed my hand and smile.. and talk to me, saying that I gained weight. I am really excited also.. but i didn't express it much. At times like this, when there's his family outing with me.. I'm not sure if he's there together with us. I'm sure he'll be happy to see me and his family together. So how did I tell amri about my plans today? I dun want him to freak out that I went out with late bf family. So I just say I'm out to west coast for a picnic, and a small bday celebration with family. As you may recall, muslim says that we are "sedara" with each other. So its like saying when sumone is your "sedara" (relative), its the same thing as, you're saying that they're part of your family.
This is how I manipulate things though. Mr.a wanted to meet me today actually. He finish werk at 5pm.. but he wanted to meet me cos we didnt really spend time yesterday. However, I made my plans today for late bf family alrd. Sorry ok.
YESTERDAY: Me n him went to IMM for lunch.. I reached there at 4.15pm like that.. and then he said he has to go off by 6 plus or 7 cos he's having this soccer match with frens. At last, it turned out that he meet his fren for playing LAN gaming together. I mean, if his frens didnt ask him out.. we could have spend time together. And I know that, he's just waiting for his frens to give him a call to confirm bout their meet up. I'm okay with this actually, who am I to control him to meet up with his frens or not right? Let me see if I do this to you, how would you react? I'm trying to be patient enuff with you boy. Initially, when he said he's gonna be working.. he told me we're meeting at 5pm. But when he came home from work after midnite, finally he decided to meet me at noon instead. Aware of this, I told him to call me when he'd waken up.. but he msg me.. which by the time I read his msg, its 1 plus. I ask him to call me, but he msg instead. I didnt hear my phone ring when he msged. So, when I got ready and everything.. precious time is wasted. And yet, he can say that we'll be meeting for a while. Can't really watch ironman movie with him today cos we're shortage of time. The only thing we do is, eat at Banquet.. accompanied me to Daiso, sit at the roof top garden. Then, goodbye. Haish.
At least, mr.a is loving when he sees me today. He hold my hand as we met.. walk together hand in hand.. And when his fren called him, he said.. I'm with Sara ku sayang. He hugged me when we're at the escalator. And he's comfortable with a kiss on the cheek in public. Hmmm. You miss me too much issit? Haiyo. I'm feeling the same way too. We only meet up for a while today. After meeting him, I went to woodlands. Look for mum's present alone. I limit myself for a $50 gift.. but then, I bought a pierre cardin wallet for mum.. Ouch, I just hope someone would share the gift with me. OOOh, fat hope! I'll use my savings den. Hurhurhur.
Save my money please. Stop shopping big spender!Labels: a smile on my face
♥ Things I Never Told You. ♥
Saturday, May 1, 2010 ( 12:20:00 PM )
I never told about this story.. only now I posted it when I've got pictures from shukri.. It happened last Friday (23rd April 2010) These things, I'm not sure if i'm gonna tell mr a. I'm not sure if I'm gonna leak out the truth to any of these guys. But I know, I will soon tell them one day. Even though I know that it hurts more if they found out this story on their own. Fafa once ask me.. Till how long you gonna play this game Sara? My answer to her is indefinite.. Because I cant find the one who suits me yet. Neither mr a.. or shukri. I told her frankly, that the best option is still late bf. From him, I learnt how a truly gentleman treats a woman. And I guess this two guys here, lacks of what each other has. Ooh, dun worry. I'm over late bf already. But once in a while, I miss him. Cos I know he will always be there for me the last time round. For you, I will pray when I say out your name.. in my prayers.
Let the story begins.
As what we practiced every year, me and Shukri will exchange presents. Since his birthday is already over. I played my part to give him his presents.. Like what he always do on my birthday. So, to begin our day together.. we met at Harbourfront. Had dinner Ramen Ten.. while talking over dinner about our lives. He told me about his plans after he's gonna ORD. I didnt say much though. only, I was trying to make us feel comfortable.. As I was talking to him, he kept looking at me right in the eyes. I dunno what to do, I turned my eyes away from him a couple of times. I'm sorry if you gonna find out that I dun really love you whole-heartedly. Thats y, I have to look away.
It's raining heavily after we're done with dinner. We thought of just sitting around and chit chat.. but almost everywhere is wet cos of the rain. So I took the opportunity to go toys'r'us. I need get present for Kak sue's daughter, Nurlin, (Late bf neice) Shukri accompanied me through out.. he gave me his opinion which is the best present that I could get. Then only I was left with two choices.. I asked him, if I choose a big present.. then I'm gonna have difficulty carrying it in the train alone. At this moment, I dun have any thoughts about Shukri sending me home or whatsoever. Until he said.. nvm, surely can fit. I was like Huuuuuh?!?!?! Shukri is gonna send me home!! But with a bike? If its a bike, den where to put the present.
I only assume that he was ridng a bike to meet me. But he didnt say if its really a bike or not. So I have to find out on my own. I thought the present is $12.90.. But den upon payint it, it's $29.90. Hahahaha. I've been punked. I just make the payment anyway, I bought this playdough set. Awww, love playing it when I was a kid. Hehe. When the cashier handed me the bag of playdough.. Shukri took the plastic bag away from me. I was suprised. And when I ask, shouldn't I carry that? Then he say, nvm.. I got it. Whoa.. he help me carry sey. Impressive.
So after getting the gift, he asked me.. Where I want to go, I said I have no plans. and I'm sure he surely has one. He thought of marina barrage. He brought me to the carpark.. And this time round, I was confident that he'll be riding a bike.. Unfortunately, he stopped at a car and says.. It's this. I rented it. WHHHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAT!? I was shocked. I didn't even know that he had a car license. And now, he says he has a car for us to go around tonight. Wow. This is like impressive number 2,.. impressed twice i mean. Heheh.
On the way to marina barrage for vivo city, it's suppose to be quite near. But this sara here, dunno how to use the google map at iphone! We got lost twice.. exitted the wrong way at ecp. However, shukri was smart enuff to drive around.. in and out of ecp.. and finally to marina barrage. We both dunno our ways to marina barrage okay.. but he followed his instincts. And we ended up reaching the final destination.
As we're out of the car.. he asked me, can I open my present? HAHA. I was like, just open it ah if you want it. I packed his present in a fossil paper bag. And he asked me randomly.. is it a fossil watch? - In my heart, fossil watch is damn expensive can? So I replied him, with just a simple answer.. No, it's not. Then we found a place to sit.. And we cam whore. Some of the pics i ask him to delete.. But he tell me, dunwan. Hmph! After camwhore, he suddenly forgot where he put his hp. Can see the panick in his face.. and him being so forgetful, he left his hp in the car. ommmg. He even tell me that he left his bike keys unattended on his bike. Baek pe! Forgetful sey.
By then it's 11pm, so I decided that we should be on our way back. He asked if I want a drink.. So I though Starbucks passion fruit tea would be a great idea. As soon as we reached Raffles City starbucks, he was like we gotta hurry. He said about car battery or what.. I dunno. So I got my drink as quickly as I could.. until I dropped my one and only straw along the way. Great.. I have to just drink my drink from a cup. Shukri sent me home safe and sound.
My Pictures with Shukri, together.
P:S. Shukri likes to take pictures with me together. But mr.a doesn't.
Hmmm. you guys may think that he's such a nice guy. But I find him a bit mysterious.. and there's so much things that I have to learn about him. I know, he truly likes me.. and he treats today like a special day. Deep in my heart, I know that he could take care of me.. and maybe I'm his first love eversince our sec school days. But the important question that I need to ask myself is. Do I really want to be with a guy who really can take care of me, even though I dun love him wholeheartedly? Or should I be with a guy who I love wholeheartedly, even though he dunno how to take care of me?
It's a tough choice rite. thats why I said in the very beginning, late bf is still the best choice, I love him wholeheartedly and he knows how to take care of me. :D Now I'm waiting for mr a to wake up for us to go out and watch ironman 2. But he finish work damn late yesterday, So I thought might as well I blog this post while waiting fo rhim to wake up. And you know, he decide we meet up at noon today. But look at the time now, its 12.58pm.Labels: blogging this blogspot
