♥ Things Happen For Reasons. ♥
Saturday, September 5, 2009 ( 11:53:00 PM )
So here goes. 4 gerls went out with 4 boys. The guys are the ones whom we (gerls) contact everyday.. and the ones whom we will seek in times of need.. in times of accompany. Right?
I slept at 3.30 am just now, gaming.. trying my best to break a high score record. Haha. In the morning, 8am.. mr a woke me up with his message. Asking me what I'm doing.. Of course lah sleeping! -.- My off day is today. No plans. Stay at home and rot.. Lol, well at least I did sumthing useful. I cleaned up my room. Hehehe. That's a good deed.
Then later in the after noon met mr. a. He finish work at 5 pm. So I thought I can c him at Orchard mrt and we go to Bugis together from there. But then, as usual.. Sara's late. And she met him at 5.45pm. Haha. Well, when I reached Bugis.. mr a is still waiting for me at Orchard mrt still. Eh, how I know he's waiting there. And when I reached Bugis, only he's on the way to meet me. So our lateness became more later.
At about 6pm, received call from Lynn, asking about our whereabouts. I reported me and mr a at Bugis mrt. Haha. But we end up going to National Library first to kill time. Firstly, prolly he's shy to meet my click of frens. Secondly, he kept on asking, "who's gonna be there" , "who we'll be meeting" kindda questions. And all I have to answer is - Don't Know.
Haha. Soon when breaking fast time, me and him join the rest. Lynn & Wan, Wirna & Shawn, Me & Mr A, Yani & Muhd. I ordered large murtabak and we shared. Half2. Haha, I can't finish my share. There's not much choice at victory.. How sad. Only murtabak and nasi briyani. Isyh2. I want fried mee hoon goreng! No choice, murtabak ooh.
Then we went to el-sheikh to sisha. Finally, I know where's el-sheikh! It's this turkish shop my sis has been talking about. Haha. All the while i've been finding where's el-sheikh. It's just nearby a 7-11 @ arab st and its just right in front of my eyes when I kept on asking myself.. where's el-sheikh. Haha.
We had ice mint tea and strawberry mint sisha. The place is rather hot.. air-con not working? but I love the chicken shawarma and sisha flavour and the tea. I Love It! Can I have a 2nd round please.. As we were chilling, mr a showed me his pics of his dad.. mom.. sisters. He so look alike, just like his dad. Omg, seriously. The only think I can think of is that when mr a has a moustache, it'll picture him as his dad. Just like a twin . Haha.
I know he's not comfortable with my grp of frens. Just like how I felt with his grp of frens. But it takes time I guess. He's rather quiet. I get to know his best fren.. its also time I introduce you to mine k? (:
Before we got separated form the rest, Lynn said to him.. take care of my fren ok. Awww, touching! After sisha, me and him had our ice cream cravings. Haha. He had his Cornetto Mc Flurry. I had my Strawberry Sundae. Yum yum yum. Went to mac Donald's. There, he's being his usual self. We share our thoughts.. we share our ice creams.. we talked non- stop.. we held hands as we walk. As we were having our ice cream, it strike him hard when thinks about what Lynn asked him on when he's gonna get married. Mr a is the kind of guy who wish to have his dreams first, then career. and by then get married at 30. As compared to Lynn & Wan, they'll get married at the age of 23/25. I manage to explain to him at least why early marriage is alright. Because, the gap difference betwen you and your child won't be so much.
Imagine you're at the age of 50, and your child is only 20. How sad.. How you wish you'd be much younger like 45 and your child is only 20.. At least you get to see your child settle down before your retirement right? It got him thinking hard. That there's so much in life. Other than working, sleeping, eating.. there's more to social life. Some part of him is telling him that he's still young, some part of it is telling him he's getting older. Well, about what I think.. life's not going to go anywhere. If its there, it will be just be there.
Don't do too much, let fate decide. But you have a choice.. and if you want things to happen, make it happen. Be it, if you want to study, if you want to work, if you want to get married.. just make it happen. Make It Happen. MAKE IT HAPPEN. Okays, mr a dress slack today. Glad he even realize it. T-shirt and slippers and jeans. While the rest of the guys, they dress up. He feels so selekeh. Haha, nvm lah. I'm getting used to it. First or twice when you wear slippers to meet me, I got angry. But now, I'm immune to it. As long as your comfortable, as long as your happy.. it's okay.
I begin to like him for who he is.. Love him for who he is. Be friends with him for who he is. I don't expect too much. All I ask for is to be happy with what you have, and be happy with who you are. Just be happy.
* Even though I feel he's a bit little too quiet nowadays. Labels: words that you said
